Well it seems it's the season to hear from folk I've not in a while!
Got an e mail yesterday from an old school pal, we have been pals for a long time, I mean since we were 7.
Then a few years back she decides that life in her new neighbourhood meant that she was so busy with her new pals etc that she ignored and I kind of thought, not knocking my socks off to keep lines of communication open as I had.
Also he way was always right , she had an option on everything, including how I should look after my stroke, and I didn't fall into her ideal stroke victim!
I didn't do x y and z how I should, s it became tiring.
Also it was beginning to be like getting an appointment with the queen and to add insult to injury I felt very like the poor woman in Keeping Up Appearance ( the neighbour and not Hyacinth ).
As I was practically sat there waiting for the hose of the Hoover to come under m chins if I dared to make a mess.
Last Wednesday however! After running into M& S because of the thunderstorm ( ok you know I've exaggerated re running) and I thought I saw her OH, wasn't 100% as hell mows the last time I'd seen him ( you only got to the house rarely when he was there if you're wondering). And I mentioned this to daughter as she drove me next day to get knee X rayed.
I am now more convinced that he must have been he, as why else now would I hear?
I know that sounds cynical but she had sent a card at Christmas card stating she'd call as 2011 had been so stressful for her, And now it's " oh sorry I have a new e mail but I'm menopausal and I have to brain and I suddenly remembered I'd not sent it to you!"
Does this face look bothered?
No it aint , but it makes me think have I got double standards going on?
I will probably e mail her back, I'm sure her OH told her I was using a crutch to walk with.
But I know I was pleased to hear from the other friend and I don't give 2 hoots about this one?
Hence why I think my forgiveness ratio is working double standards!
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